2001-11-23
Elyssa says:
have i told you she's into yoga? yeah, she's all into like natural foods,
vegetarianism, and holistic medicine...sounds like lesbian territory to
me! she's probably bi. i just keep forgetting that that's a possibilty....bc
in my experience, I'm 100 % gay, so i find it hard to put myself into
other peoples heads
Lizard says:
why do you find it hard to see other people's perspectives? love is love;
good sex is still good sex especially if you're getting it from both sides
of the fence
Elyssa says:
bc, like i said, for me, I'm 100 % gay, so i always just imagine that
everyone else is either 100% strait, or 100% gay
Lizard says:
a minor word of caution... there is such a thing as bi-curiosity...that
one sucks... I guess I can understand both b/c there's a bit of represed
bisexuality in me too...it's just a man's body is sexually repulsive to
me, but I can pick out a guy who is attractive and appreiciate his personality
Elyssa says:
even my cousin says that she is totally straight, but admitted to me that
she finds women's bodies sexier than mens
Lizard says:
i know what she means
Elyssa says:
which leads me towards Lonnie's argument that most women are at least
bi-curious... i dunno, i'm just thinking of that "look" that sara gives
me every now and then.....i REALLY like it. No girl has EVER given me
that look. then again, maybe that's just the way she looks at people,
Lizard says:
regardless of personality or charm, when you look at men's bodies, they
have to rise to much higher standards of pure physical attraction than
do women... woman have much more range of physical beauty because their
beauty comes from they're naturally being curvy...
Elyssa says:
for sure..... and they have such smooth skin and so much less hair on
their chest!
Lizard says:
heh, heh...never met a hairy-chested woman... I've seen nipple hairs,
though...mildly amusing
Elyssa says:
sorry to say so, but men are gross! but you're right. Men like DiCaprio
and stuff are sexy, but those kinds of men are few and far between!
Lizard says:
yeah...but you can appreciate a man who takes very good care of his body,
even if you're not attracted to him... dicaprio looks good, but he's an
asshole...it's hard to find qualities in both body and personality
Elyssa says:
of course, when i see a man that takes care of his body, i'm almost inclined
to go up to him and thank him for doing so.....bc men that don't take
care of their bodies can just be so hard to look at!! some men seem to
think that they have more of a right to be fat and out of shape then women
do bc they are men, wheras women, it's their job to look good and take
care of themselves
Lizard says:
ha...! I know what you're saying, but geez... try to give them a chance
and look past the body... i was pretty self conscious last night cuz i
shaved and my face is much rounder than I care to remember it
Elyssa says:
cool! you totally shaved the goatee!?
Lizard says:
yup...I didn't want to look back at their wedding pictures in 10 or 15
years and be totally dated... everyone is wearing gotees these days, and
I don't want my kids to say "ah, geez, dad, did you really wear one of
those..." heh, heh, heh, kinda like looking back at sideburns and bellbottoms
now...besides, my facial hair doesn't photograph well cuz it's blond and
red in some places and brown and black in others....just looks goofy
Elyssa says:
hee hee hee, yeah, but cute. i'm curious to see what you look like without
it
Lizard says:
most people cant figure out what's different...and I have to tell them....
my mom still hasn't said anything and sean didn't say anything.... but
I think it's understood that I cleaned up for the wedding
Elyssa says:
wierd! not even your mom?!?!?
Lizard says:
she likes me when I look all 1950's clean-cut
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